The Referral Program Nobody Uses
One client went from 2-3 referrals per year to 23 in 8 months. Same customers. Same service quality. They just stayed in front of them in a way that felt helpful, not salesy. Your best marketing isn't to strangers. It's to people who already gave you money.
Vince Calabrese
11/13/20251 min read


Your customers would refer you.
They just forget.
Here's what happens after someone becomes a customer:
→ They're happy with your work
→ You say "thanks, appreciate the business"
→ Everyone moves on with their lives
Three months later, their buddy asks "Do you know anyone who does [your service]?"
And they go: "Uhh... I think I used someone... can't remember the name."
You just lost a referral.
Not because they didn't like you. Because you didn't stay top of mind.
Here's what we do:
After a deal closes → customer goes into an automated sequence:
Day 3: Thank you + reminder of your referral program
Day 14: "Here's what else we offer" (services they didn't buy)
Day 30: "Know anyone who needs [service]? We'll give you both 15% off"
Day 60: Another referral reminder with a different angle
Day 90: Case study or success story featuring someone like them
Not spammy. Just present.
One client went from 2-3 referrals per year to 23 in 8 months.
Same customers. Same service quality.
They just stayed in front of them in a way that felt helpful, not salesy.
Your best marketing isn't to strangers.
It's to people who already gave you money.
